Guess what? We are going to give kitties (and humans) advice! It’s like being in furapy, except free. So if you have a question, please ask! Today’s question is from Treasie, who is having a problem with a new kitten in the house.
-DL&B
“Treasie here with an update on my dilemma!!!! Marble and I are not friends or buddies but I tolerate her for my mommies. She had the nerve to disturb my sleep at 3am to chase me out of my corner of the bed i have slept in since i was a kitten by my mommie and sleep there when she was by our young adult mommie REALLY? so i had this prob Sunday and mommie is not very nice with either of us, yeesh she brought the nuisance in so it is fair i throw a temper tantrum, Right? Loves and purrs”
Doc’s response:
Dear Treasie–
I’d be hissed off, too, if our mommy brought a kitten to the house! Our kitty cousins lived with us for a bit, and it was pretty awful. Our one cousin peed all over the place, and that made our mom (and me and Bruce) realllllly mad! I hissed and growled at my cousins a lot.
Bruce and I are from the same litter, and sometimes we don’t get along. Actually, we often don’t get along. Bruce is a big noodlebrain who hogs the blankets on the bed and lub lubs from our mom. But I’ve learned to just deal with him. When he came back from his wingding operation, he smelled really funny, and I was mad at him for it. I hissed at him a lot, but eventually I was okay with him being around again.
I think you’ll eventually get used to Marble. We’ve never tried it, but some humans say that feliway can make cats calmer, either with a diffuser or spray. My mom gave me some anti-anxiety drops she got from amazon when my cousins were around, and they chilled me out. Do you each have your own blankies and boxes? Bruce and I hang out in different spots in the house–I like the cat tree, Bruce likes the couch. Kittens are really active, too, but she’ll eventually quiet and calm down. You were probably a crazy kitty when you were young, too. We all were! I think if it helps you, you should throw a tantrum, but then move on from it. My mom says that hate is baggage. But then again, I really like to nap on her baggage and suitcase. So maybe you should bite Marble’s face, but try not to make her bleed.
Hope this helps,
Dr. Love
Bruce’s response:
Eat noms. Then pee on everything so that kitten knows who’s the boss!
-Bruce